Last night, I was blessed by chatting with some Facebook friends I have made in the Philippines. One of them was a young girl whose parents’ home was destroyed in the typhoon. It now appears that her college will have to wait, and this saddens her. She is truly devoted to her family and is trying to find a job to help. As she put it ~ a lot for a 17-year-old.
We chatted for a couple of hours, which for me turned into the wee hours of the morning due to the time difference. My fatigue today and pain in my hands (arthritis) from typing so much were well worth it.
Everyone wants to be strong and doesn’t want to let others see them cry. Crying is seen by most as a weakness, but not in my book. It actually takes courage to cry and admit to yourself that you’re sad and/or emotionally exhausted. I also can never see crying as a weakness, for in the Bible is the shortest verse ~ “Jesus wept.” Jesus was not weak in any way and yet even He cried.
The physical aspect of when someone cries is an emotional release that is healthier than keeping things bottled in. Stress builds up when negative emotions keep piling up which will harm the body. So yes ~ cry, scream, go take a walk, get into a cleaning frenzy ~ whatever works for you to release everything. It’s only after you do that that your mind clears and you can start taking positive actions.
Life is full of its ups and downs. It is boot camp for heaven for it’s through these trials that we learn to walk in faith. We always want to ‘fix’ things and this frustration comes when we find we’re not succeeding. The problem here is that we aren’t turning it over to God. My point of view is to turn it over to Him; He’s up all night!
If He can create this whole universe, I’m sure my issues are a walk in the park.
In closing ~ it’s when we feel we’re reaching the end of our limits that tears begin to fall. That is also the point at which God can start doing something because you finally are letting go of it.
God Bless you all ~ and may you let Him wipe away your tears.
This is DeVaughn ~ bringing it home.
Leave a Reply