On June 7, 2014, I received a call I was not ready for ~ my mother passed away. It wasn’t as if it were a total shock, for she was 93 years old and had lived a wonderful life. There just wasn’t a forewarning of her going to the hospital, getting worse ~ nothing. I received a phone call from my sister, and she told me she had been at Mama’s all day. My only response during her pause was “OK. What’s up? Is anything wrong?” A silence came over the phone and then I heard those heartbreaking words ~ “Mama’s gone.” At that point, I fell to my knees in tears as my sister spoke to me trying to help me through the phone line. The reassuring words we all hear at this time—”She’s in a better place”—just didn’t matter at the moment.
I am so grateful Peter, my husband, was here that day. I don’t think I could have made it without him. I called my son, my pastor and friend Bob Stacy, and other family and friends so they would know. Within the next week, Peter, my son Marcus, and I made arrangements and traveled to Florida for the funeral only to turn around and come straight home. The two men in my life were there for me when it mattered the most.
I was expecting a funeral that would be about my mother, but it wasn’t ~ it was about salvation. You see, my family meant the world to Mama and in her heart, so did their salvation and their walk with God. She truly lived a Christian life by example and anytime my life went astray, she would always tell me I needed to get back into Church, have a long talk with God and get my life straight; not necessarily in that order either!
About a month and a half prior, a girl came to my house, and while we were talking, she opened up to me about all of the problems and issues in her life. My response was, “So, how is your spiritual life?” This question was asked by Bob Stacy during our marital counseling and I never quite understood it until these last few months. I find myself asking people this question to help guide them back to God and His Word for answers and guidance.
I’m sure by now you are wondering what this has to do with my mother passing away. Nothing. But they do intertwine. I wasn’t prepared for the phone call even though I lived with Mama for a couple years and saw her health decline. Yes, it did help in the grieving for over those two years I periodically broke down as I saw that I was losing my mother. Here’s the question(s): Where are you?
Are you prepared to meet Jesus?
How’s your spiritual life these days? No, it doesn’t matter what church you were brought up in or belong to ~ how’s YOUR spiritual life? Are you talking with God? Are you in His Word? Are you seeking His guidance?
In closing, I would like to remind everyone to take the time and look closely at your spiritual walk with an honest eye. Just as I was not prepared for the phone call, are you prepared for the Angels to blow their horns? If today was the day you would meet Jesus face to face ~ are you ready? Don’t just assume you are; make sure you are ~ know where you are.
This is DeVaughn ~ bringing it home.
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